We understand that our determination borders on stubborn and that our perseverance has meant myriad sacrifices for our family. We know it’s hard to “get” why we do what we do.
Because of this, when we find someone who has a similar experience, there is an immediate and meaningful bond that feels exactly like family. Teammates have become brothers and sisters, while other Poekoelan schools have become our extended family.
What I didn’t know until now is that this bond could reach across styles, yank me in the heart, and pull me in with the same intensity and joy.
Recently, Jeff and I got the opportunity to visit a Pencak Silat school in Virginia. It was Thanksgiving Day and we were spending time with our family in Washington, DC. The big meal was moved to an evening time slot so Jeff and I could meet some martial artists whom our friends at the Indonesian Bureau of the Voice of America felt we should know. Nia Maria Iman-Santos, intrepid VOA reporter, picked us up in her mini van and off we trekked to Ashburn, VA with our uniforms handy – just in case.
What happened next was a gift made all the more precious because it was unexpected. I will blog more about it later, but for right now, I feel too overwhelmed to write much, so I will just say this:
Pendekkar Terra Kurnia has given us the most blessed gift of friendship and family. He, his wife and kids, their students and Pendekkar A. Malik Ahmad welcomed us into the school. On Thanksgiving Day! Together, we shared forms, food and conversation, along with a bond that was immediate and strong. My heart is full and I know we will see one another again!
“Freestyle” Pose for the Camera after our workout and feast. What a lovely group of students!
Pendekar Terra took the Metro all the way to the airport to see us off. This, after a full morning of teaching – and with his family waiting for him at home.